Coming Ashore with an Open Heart
Feeling the aftermath of August’s wild energy wave and wondering how to come ashore gently, with an open heart?
Know that you are in good company. Many people across the world have been challenged more than usual lately – naturally seeking to find a new sense of balance and clarity.
True clarity will come from asking within the deeper questions, fearlessly listening for the answers, and contemplating the highest conscious responses. Only by doing this can you have the fuller picture that includes the view of spirit.
Dilemma is Planetary and Individual
The world is now focused on what countries, with their military might, decide to do to respond to Syria. On an individual level, too, many people are upset about a host of things – including the state of the planet, what they feel they are not getting from the world, and how they feel others mistreat them.
The anger level generated by these responses is indeed toxic – to individuals and to the Earth. Even worse is the prospect of individuals and countries acting on this anger.
Your divine changemaker self knows that this scenario leads nowhere positive. You know in your bones that to have love in this world, you and others must co-create it - step-by-step, person-by-person, country-by-country. There is no other way to move from fear to love.
Eradicating fear on the outside begins with eradicating fear on the inside, getting in touch with our own false notions of what is real and then coming into the present. Just because something or someone caused us uncertainty in the past, it doesn't mean current situations or current people are anything to fear. We must learn to separate them within our own mind, as only we can do in the moment. This is freedom.
Blindsided by a Mind Field
Ever feel like you were blindsided by the mind field of another person, projecting something having nothing to do with you? It takes skillful means to relate to others projecting their unfinished business. As a divine changemaker, though, you can develop this skill and find compassion in your heart.
If you realize that you were the one doing the projecting - your own past painful hurts impacting how you felt and acted in the present, here’s a solution. Realize that you indeed have unfinished business – don’t judge yourself but be willing to look at it. Next time you find your old unfinished business surfacing in a current-time situation, do your best to come back to present time. Let go of what happened before – it’s not “now.” Don’t let negative emotions surfacing in the moment allow you to forget the higher reason of why are you are doing something, or being with someone.
Feel you sabotaged something, shooting yourself in the foot without meaning to? Don't waste precious time worrying or reprimanding yourself - take a positive, more enlightened action now.
Two People and the Bridge
Two people having a quarrel, standing on opposite sides of a bridge, must find a way to step onto the bridge to begin resolution.
On the bridge together there then must be honest and loving communication, forgiveness, ability to admit mistakes, and each person skilled enough to meet the other person more than half way.
A divine changemaker learns to rise above ego-wants and hurts, intuitively finding a way to make amends and peace. Even fog on the bridge is no true deterrent for the person applying love.
Moving Forward with Consciousness and Heart
If you’ve had a relationship challenge this past month, ask yourself how much of your current suffering has roots in the past, coloring what you are experiencing in the present. As you attend to letting the past go and finally healing it on a DNA level, you become free to enjoy the present and to see things more clearly. More on these themes at www.Selacia.com and http://EarthsPivotalYears.com.
For my previous article, “Riding the Wave,” http://earthspivotalyears.com/loving-relationships/riding-the-wave.
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Selacia is a globally known writer, DNA intuitive healer, spiritual teacher, and the creator of The Divine Changemakers. Author of a number of books, she wrote Your Guide to Earth’s Pivotal Years and writes an annual guide to the coming year.